Happy New Year!!
Can you believe how quickly 2018 flew by? It’s crazy how time flies, especially when you reflect on the year and realize how much you’ve accomplished and everything you need to focus on in the new year. Before we get down to the nitty gritty, ask yourself these questions…
What did you accomplish in 2018?
What did you want to do, but didn’t?
How did you grow in all aspects of your life (relationships, mindset, physically, spiritually, etc)?
Were you the best version of you that you could be?
What did you learn from your losses or mistakes you made?
What are some things you can improve in 2019?
Reflection is so important when heading into a new year. It allows you to break the year down into smaller bits and pieces, taking in everything that happend. The good, the bad, and the in between.
One key component in starting off the new year on the right foot is by writing down your wins and losses of the following year. If you don’t, all that happened or didn’t happen for that matter becomes baggage (aka old habits) that you continue to carry into the new year.
You want to begin 2019 with a clean slate and immediately focus on your new and improved goals for the year.
Understanding and reflecting on the lessons that you learned, will allow them to turn into wins. Your losses become wins when you learn from them and change your ways. If you don’t learn the lessons you will continue to make the same mistakes in the new year. After you reflect on all your wins and losses, let them all go. You don’t need to hold on to everything from the past year. Let go and let it flow for 2019.
Below are 5 key points that will improve your attitude going into the new year. These are some things I do frequently to keep my mind right. If you want to have your best year yet in 2019, prepare and reset your mind, so you can start it off with a bang!
1.) Like I said up top, write down your wins and losses of 2018. Reflect on the lessons you learned and then let them go. Start your new year off with a clean slate. Your baggage from the following year will be gone and you can move forward free of what has weighed you down.
2.) Create goals that inspire you to improve yourself and your life. Give them feelings and intention. Make them mean something so you can connect and feel aligned with those goals you want to achieve. When you place a feeling with your goals, you are that much more driven to make them happen. Big or small, you can achieve anything, only if you want it bad enough. Work hard, take action, stay focused and you WILL slay 2019.
3.) Create a vision board for yourself. Vision boards are an amazing tool, especially if you are more inspired by envisioning your goals. Even if you aren’t, it’s great to lay out your goals in picture form. I love looking at what I want to accomplish everyday. I feel like it sets you up for success and allows you to envision what success looks like for your future when you put in the work. Sometimes our thoughts become distant if we don’t write them down or visualize them daily.
4.) Have gratitude. YES!! Gratitude is so important. Be grateful for everything you have right now, in this moment. The little things, the big things in your life deserve to be acknowledged. There’s so much to be grateful for each day and we tend to take it for granted at times. Showing appreciation and gratitude for what you already have improves your mood and is a great start to begin each day.
5.) Start focusing on improving your mindset. growth mindset and getting rid of a fixed mindset. Having a growth mindset is understanding that you are in control of improving your abilities, talents, and that you can always learn and grown. While a fixed mindset is believing that everything you are, your abilities, skills, personality is static and set in stone, you aren’t able to grow as a person.